NEW MILFORD, NJ AND BOLTON LANDING, NY – Thomas Chapman
Dietrich, 72, a long-time resident of New Milford, NJ, passed away, much too
soon, on Thursday, the 8th of August, at his beloved vacation home
in Bolton Landing, NY. Cause of death was glioblastoma, a devastating brain
cancer.
The son of George Thomas and Virginia May (Chapman)
Dietrich, Thomas grew up in Ridgefield, NJ, where he followed his grandfather,
father, uncle, and cousin into the Ridgefield Fire Department. As a firefighter, in 1975, he led his eldest
daughter’s kindergarten class on a tour of RFD Company #3.
A life-long member and councilmember of Morsemere Community
Church, UCC (Ridgefield), Thomas met his wife, Lauren (Laurie) Maehrlein,
there, in Sunday School. They married in July 1974, and celebrated their 50th
wedding anniversary at Morsemere, by renewing their vows, just 12 days before
his death.
A diesel mechanic by trade, Tom worked for Ryder Truck
Rental for 44 years before his retirement. He attended evening classes at
Bergen Community College and Montclair State University, working towards a
degree in history. As a constant learner, immersing himself in history,
science, and religious studies, he was particularly good at trivia
competitions.
Tom donated blood and platelets regularly for decades, until
medications he needed made him an unsuitable donor. He participated nearly
every year in New Milford’s Clean Community Day, often in a kayak, pulling
trash out of the Hackensack River. His philosophy was that everyone needed to
do whatever they could to make the world a better place.
He loved to travel and fell three states short of visiting
all 50. He and Laurie made several trips to Europe, visiting the hometowns of
many of their immigrant ancestors, often meeting, and even staying with,
several distant cousins in Germany. His ancestry included Mayflower passengers,
and he was proudly, if distantly, related to Susan B. Anthony.
At the age of 14, Tom bought his first boat, with a 10 HP
outboard motor, while vacationing with his family in Rhode Island. His passion
for boating and fishing, especially on beautiful Lake George, was well known by
anyone who would listen to one of his fish tales. A family joke was that he
would give up everything else in his life before giving up his little fishing
boat!
He had a wry sense of humor, that often took people by
surprise, and he never met a dog who didn’t love him. “Mr. Fix-It” endlessly
tinkered in his workshop, and reluctantly left behind several unfinished
projects. Tom and his son-in-law, Danny, loved finding good craft beers when
they were supposed to be running errands.
He was an amiable, caring, and loving husband and an
exceptionally devoted Dad to his children, Amy (Daniel Hernandez), Emily, and
Jack. He was an indulgent, patient, hands-on PopPop to his six grandchildren:
Brett (Bretski), Charles (Charlie Mon), and Evan (Meems) Hernandez; and Sutter
(Sutter Boy), Cole (Little PopPop), and Quinn (Little Cutie) Totaro. He was his
granddogger, Luna’s, favorite person.
In addition to his wife, children, and grandchildren, Tom is
survived by his beloved brother Cliff, of Ridgefield, who worked side by side
with him at Ryder. Additional survivors include several much-loved cousins, and
his sisters- and brothers-in-law, who loved him dearly.
Friends may call from 3:00 pm to 7:00 pm on Wednesday,
August 14, 2024 at Morsemere Community Church, United Church of Christ, 930
Linden Avenue in Ridgefield, NJ.
Funeral services will be held at 11:00 am on Thursday,
August 15, 2024 at the church. Burial will follow at Ridgefield Cemetery.
The family wishes to thank the wonderful nurses, aides
(especially Eunice, Eileen, Precious, and Berilla), and therapists at Regent Care
Center, Hackensack, NJ, who took excellent, loving care of him for almost three
months; High Peaks Hospice; CNA Heidi Laramie; and dear, life-long, family
friend, Sue Wittmann, for making his last days as easy as possible. Thanks,
also, to the many family members and friends who visited, called, prayed for,
or sent cards to Tom. He very much appreciated the love and kindnesses.
In lieu of flowers, donations to Morsemere Community Church,
Hackensack Riverkeeper, the Lake George Association, and/or the ARC of Bergen
& Passaic Counties, will be greatly appreciated.