Carol “Derm” Van Aernem

VanAernemHUDSON FALLS – Carol “Derm” VanAernem, 68, of Hudson Falls, passed away unexpectedly on Saturday, January 25, 2014, at her home.

Born January 7, 1946, in Glens Falls, she was the daughter of the late William and Rita (Murphy) Brady.

She was a graduate of Fort Edward High School, and later attended Adirondack Community College and Castleton State College.

On September 30, 1967, she married George VanAernem at St. Joseph’s Church in Fort Edward.

She was employed for Grand Union, a library assistant at Burgoyne Avenue School for many years, and after 16 years of employment, she retired from East Coast Properties in Liverpool, in 2008.

Derm was a communicadent of St. Joseph’s Church in Fort Edward.  She enjoyed traveling with her husband, and was an avid Syracuse Orangeman fan.  The most important part of her life was spending time with her family, which included attending her grandchildren’s sporting events.  Derm loved everyone; she was an inspiration and touched everyone’s heart.

Besides her parents, Derm was predeceased by her brothers, William Brady, Thomas “Tucker” Brady, James Brady; and her sister, Sue Ellen Brady.

Survivors include her husband of 46 years, George VanAernem, of Hudson Falls; her children, Kathleen Abare of Hudson Falls, Kimberly VanAernem and her companion, Michael Grover, of Fort Edward, Timothy VanAernem and his wife, Samantha, of South Boston, VA; her grandchildren, Ryan Carpenter, Tyler Carpenter, Nicholas Abare, Landon VanAernem; her sisters, Mary Esperti and her husband, Dave, of Broadalbin, her twin sister, Carolyn Kelly and her husband, John, of Enfield, CT, Colleen Winfield and her husband, Richard, of Phoenix, AZ, Patricia Gregory and her husband, Dave, of New Port Richey, FL; her aunt, Kate Carpenter  of Everett, Washington; as well as numerous nieces, nephews, and cousins.

There are no calling hours.

A Funeral Mass will be celebrated Wednesday, 11 a.m., at St. Joseph’s Church, in Fort Edward.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Derm’s memory can be made to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, 501 St Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105.

Funeral arrangements are under the direction of Carleton Funeral Home, Inc., 68 Main Street, Hudson Falls

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14 Responses to Carol “Derm” Van Aernem

  1. Colleen Healey says:

    George, Kate, Kim (Mel) and Tim…. I am saddened to learn of your wife/moms passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this difficult time.

  2. Barbara Strang Cassier says:

    I was so happy that we got to see Carol and her husband at our reunio. So sorry to hear about her passing. My condolences to her fsmily. I remember her as a fun happy girl in our class. Rest in Peace.

  3. Barbara Strang Cassier says:

    I was so happy that we got to see Carol and her husband at our reunion sorry to hear about her passing. My condolences to her family. I remember her as a fun happy girl in our class. Rest in Peace.

  4. Tommy Gregory says:

    Uncle G,

    I am so sorry for your family’s loss of such a fantastic woman and most of all… a great “Aunt Red.” It seems like not so long ago we were all at the Club and Timmy and I were taking the keys to your station wagon and driving it around the big circle until it got dark outside. I remember all of the summer pool parties and cookouts we had on Mechanic Street and the strong family values we as cousins experienced that you instilled upon us. I was fortunate enough to live in Liverpool and have you two as neighbors that were always looking out for me… you even helped me with getting a job at Hooligans. I wish I could be up there now for Kate, Kim and Tim and be able to say farewell. It is with this note I wish express my condolences and want to tell you all that I love and miss you greatly. Godspeed.

    Tommy

  5. Donna & Mike Graham says:

    George&Family,
    We are saddened to hear of your loss and wish to pass along our sincerest condolenses.
    Mike/Donna

  6. Ann Ryan Chagnon says:

    I have very fond memories of your mom. May peace fill your hearts. So sorry for your loss.

  7. Kelly Walker (Mosher) says:

    Mr.V, Kate, Kim and Timmy,
    I am so sorry to hear about Ms V. You all made me feel like part of your family. Spending time at your home meant more to me then you may ever know. Although years have passed I always look back at my time at your home as a positive. Ms V was a great role model for me! She was a mom, wife and friend to many and will be remembered always.
    Kelly

  8. Jann & Joe Hoffman says:

    Kim & Family,

    We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this difficult time.

    Love,
    Jann & Joe
    xoxo

  9. Kelly Walker (Mosher) says:

    Mr V, Kate, Kim, and Timmy,

    I am very sorry to hear of Ms V’s passing. She always made me feel welcome at your home? Over the years I thought of her and your family and hope you realize how all of you provided a sense of belonging for many, especially me. Ms V will always be remembered for being a wife, mom, and great role model! My thoughts and prayers are with you!
    Kelly

  10. Joan Miller says:

    Dear sweet George and family, I was so very sorry to hear of Carols passing, she was the sweetest, girl, and we worked together so long. I was just thinking the other day that I should give her a call….wish I had now. I know you will all miss her so much as you always did everything together. I’ll say a prayer for her and for all of you. She will be greatly missed. Joanie Miller

  11. Larry Valenti says:

    George
    I am saddened at the sudden passing of Carol. She was a joy to work with. Her compassionate heart, quick wit and sense of humor will never be forgotten by myself , my brothers, and the entire “family” at east coast properties. My thoughts and prayers are with you always!

  12. Bonnie Duval says:

    Always so sad when a mother has passed. Sending our condolences to Kate and family. We pray that you are given comfort and strength during this time of loss and grief.

  13. Barbara Inglis says:

    Dear George – I’m so sorry to hear that one of the nicest people I’ve ever met has passed. Carol was a unique lady with such a big heart, fun to be with and easy to love. I always admired the companionship that you two shared; may those memories help you through the difficult times. My best wishes, Barbara

  14. Mike and Judy Richter says:

    Just heard the news from my brother, Paul.. We are so sorry to hear of Carol’s passing. We will always remember all the good times we all had together. You and your family our in our thoughts and prayers. She was a wonderful person and will be missed by all who knew her. Sincerely, Mike and Judy.